Short week

I’ve always liked driving in the country. I enjoy my new commute, and any other driving I do. I have a lovely car to drive in too. So that’s something I appreciate every day, although I find it SOOOO weird that I’m not a footloose and fancy free non-car-owner any more. No longer do I rely only on my legs and the government bus system. I found my headphones in my handbag a week ago and it was like, Wow, I didn’t know where these were for a month and that used to be devastatingly inconvenient, I used my headphones all the time on buses and walking, and now I never use them and forgot where they were. 

I now know non-Xns again. Have had a couple of people bring up something about Jesus or God in conversation with me, and even though I haven’t had many chances in the last few years to talk much with non-Xns I’m doing OK I think, at either explaining something the Bible says, or saying something about my own faith. I used to think it was a duty/challenge to refute the Agnostic, but that’s like punching fog and I’ve given up on my own powers to convince him, so I’m a bit calmer these days, and I can say things that are thought-provoking instead, which is going ok. The Agnostic said I’m less didactic. But still pushing gently back. Didactic means judgemental which I already know, judgy is the word I use, I'm an INFJ so it's ingrained. A song that captured that side of me embarrassingly well is 'Don't call it love' by Christa Wells. 

I enjoyed house sitting with JK last week. Dog sitting too. 

The local coffee shop. 

Did a short bush walk with my walking group. 

Only working 3 days this week and then going to Sydney for funtimes. Then helping work at Tocal Field Days  on Sunday so next week will be really long. 

About the town.

During the week I established an area to do tapestry. The other spare room is now a tapestry studio.

My car got a wash. 

Cows on my lunchtime walk. 

So, just had a lovely weekend. Two full days of outdoors walking and of course eating and looking at old stuff. 

First we went to fort scratchley, and had a tunnel tour which is pretty good but mostly about cannons. Lovely views. Panoramas are fun!

Then we went to a seafood cafe at honeysuckle precinct. The entertainment book voucher led us there but then the voucher wasn't valid because Saturday is a public holiday now but we are there anyway. Then we walked from there to the nobbys breakwater and back which is beautiful. 

We had a bin fire and BBQ in the backyard of my parents place. 

And watched Hart of Dixie before an early bed time!

On Sunday we went to Morpeth. It's always nice to look at stuff and eat stuff. 

We took a ride in a cart thing. 

And had lunch which took rather a long time but luckily we have plenty to talk about and we arranged a visit to Sydney which should work out excellently. Then the girls left and I drove out to the farm house me and jk are house sitting from Monday to next weekend. Then church because it was Easter which I didn't even notice I was missing out on chocolate. 

Ahhh! Good weekend.

The weekly post.

This is where I have been doing Jillian. 

This is a funky shop I went to last night. The CBD has night markets two Fridays a month and it's mostly food, but there are quite a few designy shops there as a result of an urban renewal project started in 2008 to lease shops to artists or entrepreneurs for cheap or free. Went there to meet JK for the evening. We're both glad we both moved up here. 

A bar mitzvah band playing in the street. Food we ate: pulled pork burrito, charred ginger ale, a gourmet marshmallow each, fresh hot nuts, gelato.

Today mum and dad have gone away on a grandma run til Tuesday, and sayed moved out yesterday. So I'm home alone.  I did Jillian (in the big family room now s is gone) and then drove to newcastle for a swim. The water was a little bit cold, dirty and choppy, but I stayed in for almost half an hour and it was still mighty nice. Discovered how to do pano shots. Cos I'm blogging on my phone these will be all over the blog. 

Spent the afternoon eating and reading miss marple stories. 

Work is going well btw, I actually saw my busy boss last week and got guidance on the direction of my work. Also because another designer somewhere else in the dpi has got sick I will have to finish their job, which isn't about bees at all, some kind of profarm training manual. So my desk is getting busy and it's time to start finishing things to get them off my plate. 

Steamfest is on this week but actually I've never gone, maybe next year. Trains.

Me and two friends on twitter are doing a challenge to finish beauty and skin care products, because of the triffid-like way the multiply. That's my minimalist outlet for now.  

And that's that for another week. Next weekend is road trip day, which George invented for us to visit jk and now I am up here it's for her to visit both of us. Wonderful times anticipated. 

New life.

I'm gradually establishing a new sense of normal. It's been weird being in M every weekend and not just one visit. I've had enjoyable things to do on the weekend which is good fertiliser for my new roots. I've enjoyed being on twitter because that keeps me in the loop w a couple of people I am used to being in the loop of.

Also step two has been taken, (step one being buying iPhone) and I have a car. It is a nice brand new corolla in a very nice orangey red. I never wanted or needed to drive in Sydney, but driving is unavoidable up here, although it's a lot less hideous than in Sydney, i do get to drive on beautiful country roads. So this car is a blessing I'm very thankful for. 

Work is going well. I've spent lots of time making ebooks which is my job, a significant number of hours doing IT training, induction modules online, ringing help desk to get all the email and time sheet access happening, installing everything on my computer. I think I'm 99% set up now though. And then a tiny amount of time doing little jobs for people. 

I'm eating too much chocolate. And missing a lot of incidental exercise that came from being carless. Suppose I'll have to do more deliberate exercise instead. I've got my reputation as a nacker out there though!

I got a couple of xn books for my bday. Trying to read them. I'm a bit hopeless at reading nowadays. I do audiobooks more easily. 

And that's everything. It's weird how much my blogging has changed since I left Sydney. I was right to end Jelssie cos that whole part of my brain seems to have died.

Here are few more photos. A bower bird nest, grass, and stopped at roadworks in the fog.

 

Megaweekend!

No photos because I'm not organised it's been so busy. But, another big event is behind me, my "Farewell to my Sydney Twenties" party, which was my 30th + farewell party. It went really well. It was a fast and crowded day, but my family were very helpful and I had kept it pretty simple. If I had remembered the keys to get into the hall it would have gone more smoothly, but even so, nothing was a disaster and I had a good time and I think people enjoyed it as much as I could have made them. I was pleased at the range of people who came and managed to mingle.

Making cake like soup.

Driving back up to Maitland afterwards, I decided that the next day I would start Job #2, car-hunting. I had been hoping to buy a second hand corolla via friend connections, but I missed out on it, so I without further ado I jumped into the murky waters of car dealers on Sunday. I rather enjoyed it.

I was one of the first people in to the Mazda shop on Sunday morning, and Dad came too but hung back so that I did the talking. A sales man spotted me and was super helpful. I took 3 cars for a drive. The new mazda 2 and 3, I wish there was a 2.5. The 2 is so basic, and the 3 is so much more expensive and loaded. So the car I liked was a Holden Cruze, 2012, and it was a good price and I am seriously considering it.

Then in the afternoon I went to the Toyota place. It was heaps quieter, don't know if that's a time of day thing. The sales man there was a lot cooler and frankly barely helpful enough. There is a demo Corolla I drove and it's for sale so that's another option. But then the Teacher's Carbuying Service man said demos can be a bit dodgy and it's worth getting the 2014 plate and full rego and all that. Sigh.

And then I went to church (2nd time), and it was good. It's just not easy starting at any new church. Even having been there years before, it's a different crowd of people and everyone's at different places now, so it's really a different church, and therefor although quite a few people know me I'm still essentially a new person. The sermon was good, I think I'm going to enjoy Roger's preaching, he preached on the parable of the shrewd manager and it was about money.

And I ate leftover birthday cake too late at night so I couldn't fall asleep.

Monday at work my computer came, I went to get it from the local post office with someone, so I spent the afternoon dealing with that.

Really the biggest thing in my mind is the car. I don't feel like new car people, and new car money is such a lot of my past savings, but on the other hand it's money I can save back relatively quickly now, living at home and all that. It's a big challenge to my identity as a Girl Of Slender Means, I'm now more a Woman Of Means. Turning 30, buying a car.

Here are some more pics from my new location. Tocal homestead, which I went and looked at last Friday, and a photo out the car window while I waited at roadworks.